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minus-squareessell@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·2 months agoYup. Guilt and shame do not motivate people to change. They can motivate people to hide, but not to change.
minus-squareRustyNova@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 months agoThis is exactly why you should come to people understandingly, yet firm in your beliefs Insults go nowhere.
minus-squareUninterestingVoid@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 months agoWell yes, if you put thw person in a position they feel attacked they will just defend and at that point it is really hard to do much.
Yup.
Guilt and shame do not motivate people to change.
They can motivate people to hide, but not to change.
This is exactly why you should come to people understandingly, yet firm in your beliefs
Insults go nowhere.
Well yes, if you put thw person in a position they feel attacked they will just defend and at that point it is really hard to do much.