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  • I know that on Lemmy specifically the number of trans women is significantly higher than the number of trans men, iirc Tumblr Pinterest and bluesky are places that trans men tend to be more dominant.

    There is also a point that there’s not much about men that women don’t already know compared to the VAST amount of things that men don’t know about women.
    So when someone switches gender the transfems tend to have a lot more learning and will overshare their experiences to help prevent the struggle for the next transfems that come along.

    though obviously that’s not to downplay the issues that trans men experience, there’s a lot of things that I thought were obvious that my transmasc friends had no idea about



  • Depression from being forced to grow up the opposite gender entirely removes my objectivity on this topic. Cis men don’t experience that same feeling so I can’t comment on what they feel.

    I can say I personally feel a lot better as a woman though.

    Also, cis women can stop their periods. My roommate has a thing injected in their arm for birth control that also fully stops their periods for (iirc) ~5 years.
    Also I saw online that if you skip a dose of pill birth control before your period you can also skip the period, but I don’t have a uterus so I can’t confirm if that’s true lol

    edit: This topic is a lot more complicated than I thought it was. I apologize.