It’s gross to specifically seek out someone specifically because they’re shy and with mental issues. Men who target people who are vulnerable are usually looking for someone easy to manipulate. Same thing as the “looking for someone a little autistic” trend. Or before that, “looking for a girl with anxiety”. They want the power and none of the responsibility of dealing with the downsides of the mental issue. Red flag behavior.

ib4 the downvotes: I’m not the only one who noticed this bs and there’s a rabbit hole of discourse on this trend online.

Go to where the audiophiles are. There are plenty of headphones and IEMs (earbuds) under $50 (and even $25) that sound fantastic and sound better than $200 dollar options out there. My favs that I actually tried are the MOONDROP Chu 2 $23, Koss KSC75 $20, and the Sennheiser HD 600 (which I got on eBay for like $250). Check out the audiophile subreddit, there are plenty of people who have made ranking lists.

I literally thought you meant Bandcamp gets to keep all the revenue on Bandcamp Fridays lmao

This seems like a stupendously bad idea on its face. Haven’t they heard of Murphy’s Law?