• ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 month ago

    Then she should tell me that, ironically, because I’m neurodivergent and can’t read my own mind sometimes, let alone hers.

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      1 month ago

      There’s nothing to read into. Nothing to interrupt. She’s literally asking to spend time with you.

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        1 month ago

        That’s what “nope” means? I thought it just meant “nope.”

        I figure something like “No I just want to cuddle with you and have a nice chat” would be a more descriptive way to say “nope,” maybe we should look into that.

        If “she wants to talk to me” then she should use more than one word.

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          Neurotypicals communicate the “i just want to cuddle” bit through body language and tone. Of course, being neurodivergent, we dont see that. Then they get mad because they cant read our minds, thought they were being clear (because it was to people like them) and assume we’re blowing them off

          What we have here is a failure to communicate