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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • So!

    You might have some neurodivergence. I was diagnosed with ADHD (Inattentive-Moderate) and I recognise this situation.

    You are happy and fulfilled by ‘parallel play’ where you are with someone but you are each doing your own thing.

    It sounds like your partner is asking for dedicated quality time. With active interaction.

    So here’s what you do: Buy LEGO.
    Nothing major (at first). The Botanical sets are lovely. Then you pick an evening, put on some background music and sit across from each other building your own set and talking about stupid garbage.
    Once you’re done, order some food in and cuddle on the couch with a comfy movie. (WALL-E, Spirited Away, Hot Fuzz. Something like that).

    Maybe, if you’re a giga-chad, you sneak some fancy dessert into the house earlier in the day.








  • Scratch@sh.itjust.workstoMemes@lemmy.mlwestern women rights
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    2 months ago

    Ban anyone for coercing someone into or out of clothing.

    Granted, I haven’t put a major amount of thought into the nuance, but the idea of making it a sin for some people to legally go outside is absurd.

    The approach of these laws makes it so the victims of mistreatment are the ones breaking the law.

    It’s like making it illegal to be homeless or illegal to have been mugged. It’s fucking outlandish.