Feeling judged by my female friends.
If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men. As long as you have a clean way to prep food and no health hazards in the environment the rest is bonus points as far as I’m concerned. Yeah, there’s an unfolded bag of laundry in my room and clutter on the coffee table; I live here.
There was once a conversation at my work through which I discovered that most of my male coworkers enjoy baking (and yes, I also enjoy baking).
Simultaneously funniest and saddest part of that was one lady sitting through that conversation with thousand yards stare, who previously said that her husband, in terms of household chores, doesn’t even know how to use washing machine.
It’s still prevalent unfortunately.
My ex-husband once woke me up at 4am to yell at me about not having clean socks.
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That was one of those rare moments that I gained a lot of clarity about the situation I was in.
her husband … doesn’t even know how to use washing machine.
That’s her child then. I’d recommend women start calling that out, but only if safe.
If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men.
There was a time that I had my slut-era post divorce and was seeing several different people. There was a time I was over at 3 different men’s houses over the course of a couple days and not a single one of them had handsoap anywhere in their house. I had a laugh ngl.
But also maybe give the shower a scrub once in a while along with the toilet, yeah?
Did you look in their showers? There’s perfectly good shampoo you can use for that /s
In all seriousness - they were using the dish soap at their kitchen sink lol
Works fine, honestly.
And if you work on cars and stuff a lot, it’s actually much better at cutting through grease and oil grime than regular hand soap.
Not when there’s 0 soap in the bathroom and one is touching all the door handles and such to get to the kitchen sink.
It’s more of a reminder how many men don’t wash their hands after handling their dicks lol
Pets make life so fucking hard to keep clean, don’t punish yourself for it.
I’ve been tackling my house over several weeks by picking a different corner of the place and deep cleaning each day (though not every day). I spend about an hour on each area and it feels way less overwhelming than thinking I have to get an entire room or my entire place clean.
If you’re only cleaning the toilet and sheets, yeah you earned the judgment lol
