• gedaliyah@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    Hard disagree on that one. If every group of people you are involved with is “toxic,” then it’s probably time for a long hard look in the mirror.

  • Boomer Humor Doomergod@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    Having been in the poly community this is really accurate. It’s messy and complicated and you have waaaay less fun than you think.

    It’s a big reason why I avoid people now.

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      16 days ago

      It can be messy and it can be complicated, but it really doesn’t have to be.

      I know and bunch of people including myself who are very adult about their (romantic) long-term relationships. Those people tend to work hard in themselves and their relationships, especially in the first few years though.