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      He wears what’s comfortable, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Adam Sandler is famous for shooting movies in exotic/fun locations so that it doubles as a vacation for him and the actors/crew. He’s beloved in the industry, and widely regarded as a good, friendly, loyal, down to earth person. Why on earth should someone like that be excluded from an awards show?

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        Hes rich, that’s the only reason. I like to dress comfy too but if you show up to a black tie event in shorts, it’s not being comfy, it’s being a disrespectful jerk.

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            People need to find things to be mad over apparently. No one was disrespected. They clearly let him in dressed like that. And aside from the chat here no one is talking about this…

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            It’s disrespectful to the people who set it up and to everyone else who is there to have a nice evening. Im not big on wrestling formal attire but I got invited to see the nutcracker at the symphony so I put on a nice sweater. Imagine you invite someone to a wedding and they show up like that, you’re gonna say that’s not disrespect I mean if you don’t find dressing like that to a black tie event disrespectful that’s just a reflection on you

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              How exactly does “seeing a man wearing shorts and hoodie” affect your “nice evening?” Seems weird to let something so small that is completely unrelated to you affect you so much that you feel disrespected. Honestly I’d argue your projection is more a reflection on you here.

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              It’s disrespectful to the people who set it up and to everyone else who is there to have a nice evening.

              How

              I mean if you don’t find dressing like that to a black tie event disrespectful that’s just a reflection on you

              How

              I’m begging you, explain how it’s disrespectful. I don’t think you can, because I think you agree with me that it isn’t actually disrespectful.

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                It’s not my job to educate you or teach you manners or how to live in a society. How can I explain all that in a chat reply when you’re clearly ignorant and weren’t raised right. I can’t fix you dude

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                  If you understood how it’s disrespectful, it wouldn’t be hard to explain. Here’s an example:

                  Sexual assault is disrespectful because it violates a person’s bodily autonomy, which is a fundamental human right.

                  See? Easy. Now, try that for “people who dress wrong”.

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    Also, Chinese tourists everywhere.

    And god forbid you ever have to be near any of the Saudi royal family.

    • grew up in a major European city with lots of tourism. Asian tourists are almost invisible on how unobnoxious they are. while Americans are loud and entitled. Germans and English tourists were annoying but only came to get drunk on the beach. Israeli tourists also tend to be entitled and annoying.

      other groups were rare so not much to talk about them

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        Asian tourists are almost invisible on how unobnoxious they are.

        Depends. Those big tourist groups are definitely an issue when the streets are already cramped without tourists and you have places to be.

        • From Barcelona. they only shop up on line a handful of corners, seems like they get off the bus on the Sagrada Familia or other simpler spots, take their picture and go back to the bus. I didn’t specify which eat Asians, because never gotten too close and no one complains about them.

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            Sorry bud, you weren’t able to determine what country they were from by visual cues alone? It’s over for you. He knows who you are, deep down.

            • do they want me to try to remember and guess the nationality of people I saw from a distance 20 years ago?

              not going by “they all look the same” but come on. you try to guess the nationality of a tourist you saw across the street 20 or so years ago

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    As someone living in a very touristic place, it’s really hard to distinguish Americans from wealthier Brits. You pretty much have to hear them speak. Poorer Brits definitely stand out and I’m guessing so would poorer Americans but we don’t get a lot of poor Americans (for obvious reasons). It’s easy to spot Scandinavians and as I’m from eastern Europe I can easily pick up Poles and tell them apart from Russians and Ukrainians. Spanish and Italians are also easy to recognize and distinguish. I’m not a waiter so I don’t know which ones are the worst customers.

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      After working with poles for years, I can recognize them on the street without them saying a word.

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          I wonder what you are referring to as well. Also ‘weaponizing discomfort’ sounds like something inappropriate while actually discomfort is a real thing and no one has to stand for it (in a certain degree). Not caring at all if you are causing others discomfort is the definition of selfishness. Recompensating somebody with a big tip, because you are a dick doesn’t make you less of a prick.

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            It would be better phrased without ending the sentence with a preposition, such as, “Sorry, I do not know to what you are referring.”

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              Okay, cool, you did understand me though, yeah? Gonna explain what you meant earlier? The feeling of being scolded for something I said and not knowing what is one up with which it’s hard to put.

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                And just to reiterate a little more clearly, my whole point is your feelings are on you. I am responsible for my actions and words.

                If shame was that valuable, fox news would have had us doing their dirty work long ago.

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    I will never forget that group of tourists that, many many years ago, came to see the Pope in Germany and, while waiting for the underground, for reasons that elude me, started chanting: “USA! USA! USA!” 😐